The guide to guys!

Apparently us girls are confusing, I beg to differ! girls are the same, no matter what you're into you are just like everyone else but boys on the other hand theres a massive difference!

boys are more judgemental and heres how to figure out a guy in simple steps as well as how to get a guy!

Step number 1: Dress sense! a guy who can dress himself is either well organised or vain! for us its just a daily task but for a guy its a lifestyle! look out for if they wear certain type of brands or are picky and check themseleves out alot! you need a guy who isnt going to love himself more than he loves the relationship!

Step Number 2: Now if you've made it back to their house lucky you ;) what you want to look out for is tidiness! you need a guy who doesnt leave pizza boxes everywhere! a guy who does clean on the other hand shows he likes to look after the place and that he doesnt rely on other people too much! if the place is spotless either his mother comes round or he's OCD, both of which arent bad but the mother coming round all the time and no feet on the coffee table! No thank you!!

Step number 3: The love life! every girl wants that dream man but he's not going to be like how you picture guys from a movie! he's no Brad Pitt of Johnny Depp! you dont want a guy who tells you how perfect you are so early into any sort of relationship especially when you're only just talking! you need laid back and respectful not up front and in your face! twist things up a bit, if you normally go for a sporty guy go for an artistic guy and she what changes you like and what traits you notice you love the most in guys! this will help you find guys more suited to you when you know what...

Step Number 3 continued: you want because at the end of the day it will narrow down your search to true love! you might even regonise a pattern in traits which lead to the weirdos because believe me i've had my fair share of wackos and it would of been amazing if i spotted the signs earlier!!

How to get a man: Everyone nowadays rely on tinder and dating websites! try small talk with a good looking guy while waiting at the bus stop, in a queue, just somewhere low key with a peaceful environment! it means they can talk to you more and may even ask for a number! if not theres no harm in asking him, it shows your confident plus if it doesnt work chances are you wont see him again!

Don't be overly confident or in their face otherwise they may feel intimidated or think you're too much energy! just have a few jokes maybe let the odd stupid comment slip and play it off because it'll make awkward situations easier to handle in the future! Don't let a guy mess you around though! if you think its becoming rather odd it may be time to put yourself back on the market! why waste time with the wrong guy and when you can give yourself more time to look for the right guy!

Ignore the old rules of dont call or text back until so many hours, you want to show that you're keen and interested! it doesnt leave guys gripping on for more they just think its a waste of time and leave! All in all be confident, have some energy, dont worry about embarrasing yourself and have fun! At the end of the day if it doesnt work you know it wasnt meant to be!